Barefoot Gentile
Barefoot Gentile said:
NotSoDoomedRunner said:
Barefoot TJ said:
Didn't you just go to church on Sunday?
Yeah, but I'm not the don't dance, judge everybody sort of Christian. I'm more of the we all sin, try to do your best and do a lot of charity type. I also spent the night at a homeless shelter this week, so hopefully it evens out. It was a friend's re-bachelor party.
Doing one good deed to substitute a bad one is the problem with christians today. There are no short cuts. You know where there are more sinners than a strip club? Packed churches on Sunday. A close friend of mine had a bachelors party at strip club like 4 years ago, for months I was agonizing on what to do, I decided to go, I was so dissappointed on my decision. Live and learn I guess.
"Take up thy cross and follow me" To me this statement scares me, because it's about dying to self, to the material world, and surrendering.
I don't try to do a one for one exchange, I was just saying I hope in the end, I do more good than bad. I may tell a dirty joke among adults or go to a strip club from time to time if there is some sort of occasion, but the work I do for the poor and trying to help people out is far more of a presence in my life- and usually don't brag about it, but it is germaine. Many in my own church don't know how much I volunteer.
I think part of that is my philosophy is not that I am looking for a short cut- I am not a Christian just because I want to go to "Heaven." The Hebrew word Jesus used that we translate to Heaven or eternity actually meant the next age- that we were preparing for the next age. I'm a Christian because it makes my life better and is a better way for me. I try to make the lives of others better. A lot of people who call themselves Christian never go to strip clubs or drink or say a bad word, but they also keep all of their money, don't give any time to others, or don't care about making the world a better place. I find that less likely to be what Jesus wants. I'm not perfect, and I acknowledge my mistakes and short comings, try to do better, and move on. In THIS case, the strip club was for a re-bachelor party of a friend who is a Diest (believes in some sort of being, but not necissarily what we call God). He has been in a real funk. I'm the type of guy who RARELY goes out with the guys, so I knew my presence would mean something to him. So in this situation, I have to weigh, am I doing more good by making a judgement on him and not going, or by going and buying him a drink. So I went to the party, then the club, got him a drink and headed home pretty early so I could run 26 miles the next morning at 4. I stand by my decision.
Again, sorry to go so in to religion. I recently had an incident where someone was really offended by my talking about my religion and beliefs on my own facebook, so I pretty much dropped it back down to people I know in real life. I try not to go on about this stuff. I know TJ was joking when she asked if I went to church the day after the club, and you are meaning to educate me in your beliefs so I am just responding to that. But if anyone is seriously trying to say that because I have sinned or because I went to the club with a friend who needed me that I am not a Christian, then we simply have different belief systems on what a Christian is.
Now, if you believe differently, that is great. I think we all have to find out way, and the best way for us. I'm reading Love wins by Rob Bell right now, and if you want a much more articulate way of understanding how I feel on a lot of things, I think that is it.
And this is not a way for me to get out of doing wrong. I actually only came to being religous in about 2008. I recently re-looked at some aspects of my life and saw I had fallen way off of the way for a bit, and am working to come back in some different aspects. I'm still not 100% sure how I'll answer for some things I've done in the end, especially regarding war. I'm very conflicted on that.
Oh and Bubba- other than the beer for me and whiskey for my friend I did not support anyone's college fund, lol. I actually spent most of my time watching the Patriots Broncos game.